1. Notes: 175 / 4 months ago  from bipolarnurse (originally from trungphan)
    bipolarnurse:

Is a “Relationship Break” good? 
Depending on how and why you need a break, will determine whether or not it is a good thing. 
You’ll find that a break is not going to be a quick fix. It’s a time where both people are supposed to think and use the time a part to figure out what you want and how to achieve it. A break is simply a way that you can try to take time a part to work out certain issues.
If you want to try a break with your relationships, I recommend that you talk everything out before hand. By talking things out, you know what you and your partner need to think about in order to make things work. You don’t want to take the time and ignore the problems because they’ll be there waiting as soon as you get back together.
By talking, you’ll be able to get all your feelings out. This is a time that you may be able to share feelings that you’ve never told your partner, and vice versa. By explaining why you need a break, or hearing your partner’s explanation, there may be time to salvage the relationship.
You have to be patient and you’ll have to trust your partner. If your partner no longer loves you or is no longer in love with you, your relationship would end no matter what, if it hasn’t already.
By taking a break, you’ll both be able to rediscover yourself. You’ll be able to remember what things where like when it was just you. When you’re in a relationship, you tend to compromise so much, it’s hard to tell where one person starts and the other ends.
A relationship break can help you slow down and learn about yourself and your partner without the added stress of the relationship. In some cases, a break in a relationship can help create a better bond because both people are given time to replenish yourself so that you can give your relationship a better go.
In some cases, breaks can lead to break ups, but in those cases and in those relationships, there would be a break up either way. 
Just make sure that you and your partner both know and understand any rules of the break.

    bipolarnurse:

    Is a “Relationship Break” good? 

    Depending on how and why you need a break, will determine whether or not it is a good thing. 

    You’ll find that a break is not going to be a quick fix. It’s a time where both people are supposed to think and use the time a part to figure out what you want and how to achieve it. A break is simply a way that you can try to take time a part to work out certain issues.

    If you want to try a break with your relationships, I recommend that you talk everything out before hand. By talking things out, you know what you and your partner need to think about in order to make things work. You don’t want to take the time and ignore the problems because they’ll be there waiting as soon as you get back together.

    By talking, you’ll be able to get all your feelings out. This is a time that you may be able to share feelings that you’ve never told your partner, and vice versa. By explaining why you need a break, or hearing your partner’s explanation, there may be time to salvage the relationship.

    You have to be patient and you’ll have to trust your partner. If your partner no longer loves you or is no longer in love with you, your relationship would end no matter what, if it hasn’t already.

    By taking a break, you’ll both be able to rediscover yourself. You’ll be able to remember what things where like when it was just you. When you’re in a relationship, you tend to compromise so much, it’s hard to tell where one person starts and the other ends.

    A relationship break can help you slow down and learn about yourself and your partner without the added stress of the relationship. In some cases, a break in a relationship can help create a better bond because both people are given time to replenish yourself so that you can give your relationship a better go.

    In some cases, breaks can lead to break ups, but in those cases and in those relationships, there would be a break up either way. 

    Just make sure that you and your partner both know and understand any rules of the break.

    (Source: trungphan)

     
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